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Why doesn't my husband seem very excited about my pregnancy anymore?
We discussed having kids, what we'd named them, what they'd look like and how they'd turn out to be. So a little while after we got married, we started trying to conceive. It took eight months, but I finally got back a positive yesterday morning I was so happy and I just couldn't wait to tell my husband.When he got home from work, I took him to our bedroom and showed him the positive test. He looked at me with shock, then wrapped me in his arms, held me tight and said, " I'm so happy right now." He stayed excited and happy about it until we decided to tell my mother. I can understand maybe being nervous, but he was downright terrified to tell her.And ever since then, he hasn't seemed very happy.Maybe I'm wrong, and maybe's he's just nervous about telling his family because he thinks they'll react like my mom? or maybe he's afraid it isn't true?What do you think is wrong?And do you think it's only temporary?
Is it wrong as a Christian to use birth controls, like condoms to prevent pregnancy?
What could I get for my best friend to cheer her up during pregnancy?
My best friend is feeling a little down in the dumps as she has not had a very pleasant pregnancy. What could I get her or where could I take her to cheer her up?She is also quite stressed out as she has just bought a house with her boyfriend which needs doing up in time for them to get settled before baby arrives
How do I induce lactation without pregnancy?
My Dom boyfriend has a fetish of suckling my nipples and drawing milk and also of milking me.How can I do this without getting pregnant?
Is there such a thing as an accidental pregnancy?
After 9 years I have discovered that the accidental pregnancy was no accident. Am I wrong for wanting to leave?
9 years ago I was seeing a girl who I was a friend with for 8 years before anything " romantic" happened and we were having regular sex. 90 % of the time with a condom and 10 % without shower, spur of the moment type sex But she was on The Pill. We were very careful, or so I thought. Apparently, as she told me last night, she was purposely skipping pills and when we did conceive or daughter she had been off the pill for 2 months This was not to my knowledge.At that time We were both 20 I did not want children. I wasn't ready. I had my whole life ahead of me. She always joked about what our babies would look like but I never took it seriously. She was a college student at the time and in no way ready for children. Anyways, when she found out she was pregnant we both were really upset about this or so I thought accidental pregnancy. But we embraced it and have had a very enjoyable life together. We got married and now we have 3 children. I am so happy with the way my life has turned out and I love my life even though it's not what I was planning. I thought she felt they same way but last night we were having a few drinks and she started saying that she felt really bad about lying to me about something so I told her to say what she was thinking about. She confessed to me that she purposely got pregnant cause she loved me so much and she couldn't wait to be at home with our babies. This was such a surprise and such a deep betrayal She didn't even apologize she just said it matter of factly.The past 9 years have been based on a lie I can't believe she did this to me. I don't regret my marriage or my children, but I do not think I can stand to be married to this woman anymore. Up until yesterday we have had an AWESOME marriage. We work so well together and I love loved? I'm so confused right now her so much.But the thing is, had I known that she had purposely shoved my life of course I have made many many sacrifices to start a family this young I wouldn't have married her and started a life with her. I would obviously take care of my daughter in fact, I would assume that I would be granted custody considering that my wife doesn't work but I wouldn't have supported my girlfriend at the time. I don't regret my marriage but I feel like if I had known the full facts I wouldn't have even got married. This is all just so unfair. I love my kids and I want my family, but how am I to trust anything my wife says to me?I don't think I will be able to recover from this. It's been only a day, but I am so betrayed and so angry. I just think about how different my life would have been if she hadn't pulled this stunt. Honestly, before I knew this I thought that we had both just been dealt an unexpected hand and that we would deal with it the bast we could and laugh about it. But now I know that she planned it I just feel disgusted. Especially since when she told me she just laughed and said that it felt good to get it off her chest. I was going to be a dentist, start my own office, travel the world, and now I am so resentful towards her I am sure this will never be repaired.As I am typing this I am getting more and more angry I hate what she did to me. I am so mad...I am so confused about everything because up until yesterday I wouldn't have had my life any other way. But now, it's another story. I am currently out of town with my oldest and my youngest for a dance competition and she is at home with our middle child so he could go to his friend's birthday party. The kids know nothing of this, in fact my wife doesn't even realize just how much she has destroyed. We'll be home late on Sunday and I don't even want to see her or be near her. Should I move out ASAP? Or ask her to? I want to be with my children.How can I not hurt my children? I love them more than anything but I'm not staying in this lie. This will come as such a surprise to everyone. It's such a surprise to me. What am I supposed to do? What am I supposed to say? I'm not even 30 yet...Any advice would be helpful. I am such a wreck right now. The girls are sleeping in the other room and I'm just sitting in this hotel more upset than I've ever been about anything. Why did my wife do this to me? I am destroyed. I hate her. Please help me. I don't want to hurt my kids.
Abusive relationship and pregnancy?
My bf recently broke up with me. A couple days later i found out that i was pregnant. His immediate reaction was for me to terminate the pregnancy because " he doesnt want his child raised by me or by someone he wants nothing to do with" . I have a handsome two yr old that he basically told me i wasnt a good mother to because i don't discipline him hard enough. That's where most of our arguments had risen from. He also didn't like the fact that i was not submissive. i often feared him when were together. He once attenpted to.smash icecream in my face because i told him i got a guys number once when we were temporarily broken up. We were at a crowded restaurant. I was so embarrassed and scared. Another example is him ripping my tights because he didnt want guys staring. I ripped a pair of his boxers as a joke and he gripped my hair ripped my bracelets off and he tried to rip my shirt. He did it aggressively. I dealt with him calling me a bitch in front of my son and i walked in the rain while he and my son walked under the umbrella just because i called hos name with an attitude because he couldn't hear me saying " blank i need some umbrella too" . We always argued which is his excuse for breaking up with me. I dont know why i wanted him back for a short while. I been asking him to be there for me through this tough time. He doesn't want to. He said he doesn't love me anymore go depend on depend on other ppl. I feel so hurt and like im not good enough. Two years is a short period of time, but it wasn't always bad. He told me he didn't want to be with me, be my friend, or to have my baby. I will never understand because i took a lot from him and loved him. I got attacked for standing up for myself. He made me feel like he is better. He is not even financially stable but he is in college. Im in school too trying to make a way for me and my 2yr old. Im lost though??? Why am i got through this? I feel like i gotta kill my baby???
20 questions i can ask about pregnancy?
well im kinda stumped and i need to interview my mom talk about bad timing for this project for health class. Basically i need 10 questions about pregnancy and 10 questions about the first years of parenting.
Would it be crazy to consider pregnancy?
My period is five days late. Maybe I need to be slapped, but Im very paranoid. Someone please just tell me that Im crazy. My bf and I have never had sex, we r both virgins. He has fingered me and Im really scared that when he did that he might have had pre c m on his fingers. Also one time, he rubbed his p nis along my clit but we used a condom. I am really scared at the moment, I'm only 19. Please help.
Is my wife's reaction to her pregnancy normal?
My wife and I are expecting our first child ren . Found out last month we are having twins. I am very excited obviously, and so was she initially, but now that is worn off, and all she can talk about is what this is going to do to her body. She had eating disorders during college and has always been health and figure conscious, but not obsessed. She competed in figure and bikini competitions while we were dating and engaged, so she has a good body. Now all she's doing is freaking out about getting stretch marks, ruining her abs, having stretched out skin, etc. She's 33 and thinks her body is ruined forever now. Is this normal? I would have thought it would pass by now. It's getting annoying.
Besides faking pregnancy how else could I prank my boyfriend. preferably over text?
he's been on a pranking binge with me lately and it's time for some sweet payback. The pregnancy prank is too cliche and i want to stay away from the cheating idea.
Husband has no sympathy for my pregnancy?
I am 30 weeks pregnant. I am a nursing assistant at a nursing home. If some of you don't know the job is physically strenuous. I work fuLl time hours still and when I come home I'm tired. My back hurts my feet hurt. If I say anything along those lines he says. Oh what ever your fine, quit being whiney . Today he asked me why I don't work 60 hours a week like I used to He wasn't joking. My husband works out of town and is home one day a week. So on top being 30 weeks pregnant and working a full time job I am taking care of our 2 year old and doing all of the house work. He never asks how I am feeling.. Nothing...what's with him??
Why is my mom rude about my pregnancy?
i am 11 weeks pregnant. i say almost everyday that the baby is getting bigger. but my mom says no, your just getting fatter, its not all baby. i am skinny with a nice figure. my sister says she is only saying it because she is obese. is that really why? i almost don't want to eat. but i know i have to. because im scared to under eat and over eat, then my mom says that to me. not just once but everyday.
Divorce and pregnancy laws?
I'm from Indiana. My husband is in the military and stationed in Texas. almost a year ago, my daughter was having some medical problems that needed treatment. we were in el paso, and the closest specialist to treat her was in dallas, which was an eight hour drive. with the hours he was working, and the lack of support for me and my our 3 kids, we agreed that our kids and i would move home where the closest specialist was a 45 minute drive, and i had people to help with our other two children while i was taking our daughter back and forth to her appointments. i stayed in indiana all of last summer. in august he informed me that he wanted to get divorced, and that he would file for it. the marriage had been breaking down for over a year, so it wasn't a big deal. in september we both started seeing other people. after five months of bugging him about getting everything rolling so i could move on with my life, he informed me in january he wasn't going to file. he still wanted to get divorced, but didn't plan on remarrying anytime soon so he didn't care when it was filed, and told me if I wanted it sooner I was going to have to do it. In february i was finally able to get the money together to hire a lawyer and get the divorce filed. our final hearing in in July. sorry for all the back story. but my problem is this. i recently found out i'm pregnant with my boyfriends baby. The divorce was filed in February, and i'm only about 5 weeks pregnant, so conception didn't even happen until long after it was filed, but from what i've read, for the most part they won't finalize it until after the baby is born and paternity is established. I haven't even SEEN my ex since the end of November when he was home for our daughter's surgery, and there's no possible way it's his baby since i haven't slept with him since august shortly after which was when he told me he wanted divorced. . Are there any loopholes or exceptions they might make?an i meant to add, i HAVE already contacted my lawyer, but she is in a hearing today and i won't hear from her tomorrow. I know if any one can give me direct answers its going to be her, but i figured i'd see if anyone had ever been in or heard of a situation like this.
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